Reasons, Argue & Feeling Arise

Sooner or later your thoughts confronts you.
Selfishness deminished only in your mind.
In time you realize that you are still,
selfish and centered solely on your pride.

Once in a while you face the truth,
of your deceptive ways to find love for one,
selfless reason. You are a victim too.
A victim of wanting to love for purely selfish...

Reasons argue and feelings arise.
Deception fades and the time comes to decide.
You settle for the commitment...
and hope that somehow it's not as realized.

Secrets

We all have secrets (don't try to deny it) Some keep secrets about what they ate that day, sometimes it is a crush, at times you may keep secrets about a way you are feeling. Regardless of the secret it is typically kept a secret for one main reason and that is...fear of judgement. We all have passed judgement on someone else and we have all had judgements made on us. (maybe the title should have been judgements instead) We don't get to decide what other people think or feel about what we wear, how we talk, or what our religion is, they get to decide all on their own. Why should we get upset over something that someone else feels? If they have problems with something then whose problem is it really? Would you spend time with someone if you knew exactly what they were thinking about you all the time? Would you really want to know all the bad remarks people make about your wardrobe? Secrets are not always a bad thing they just get a bad rap. Secrets can save hearts, save someone from an eating disorder, keep a friendship tighter, or just save you from the judgement that you did not need to know existed. Lesson is next time you find out about someones secret think about why they were trying to keep a secret or most importantly do not pass judgement on them for that secret.

What is Independence???

Long years ago, we made a tryst with destiny and now the time comes when we shall redeem our pledge... At the stroke of the midnight hour, when the world sleeps, India will awake to life and freedom. At the dawn of history India started on her unending quest, and trackless centuries are filled with her striving and the grandeur of her success and her failures. Through good and ill fortune alike she has never lost sight of that quest or forgotten the ideals which gave her strength.

We end today a period of ill fortune and India discovers herself again. The achievement we celebrate today is but a step, an opening of opportunity, to the greater triumphs and achievements that await us. Are we brave enough and wise enough to grasp this opportunity and accept the challenge of the future?

“True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.”

We all know relationships come with their share of ups and downs. We have all been through these. Some have come out victorious, while some haven’t been able to wrap their head around what exactly went wrong. Somehow, we all think we need to work hard at making a relationship work. We live with the misconception about what true love is. We have been fed this magical fairly tale like feeling when we were kids with all the fairy tales and the tall, dark and handsome or the tall, fair and beautiful cliches! Its the way story books and the media are…but then, we forget they are just stories. Meant to amuse and entertain.When in reality Love is far more beautiful than any fairly tale or any romantic story. Its a selfless feeling. A feeling towards another…irrespective of reciprocation. If we can only remove the dark glasses of what we Think what love should look like and just feel it for once….all the complications would just melt away.Although there are times when people who are madly in love also part…its not the love thats at fault..its the situation or circumstance. Love is not going anywhere. Its right there in your heart…feel it! Each of us is full of immense love irrespective of our situation or circumstance! We just need to feel it enough and share it enough to let all our relationships blossom in its beauty.
The difference between True Love and Infatuation.
We all need to know this in order to know what part of our loving relationships we need to work on….and Are you truly in love or madly infatuated??
You are In Infatuation when:
You see the other person as perfect
You want to get own needs met; selfish
You spend all your time with the other person
You can Quickly “fall” for the other person
All your Other relationships and friendships deteriorate
You are solely Dependant (emotionally) on the other person
You experience Jealousy frequently
Your relationship lasts for a short period of time
Distance strains and often puts an end to the relationship
Temptation is the second name of infatuation and its so easy to fall for temptation. But the question is, do you want a lasting, satisfying relationship? If so, infatuation isn’t the answer. Look at your relationships through the differences above. A relationship cannot be based on infatuation.Perhaps, True and Real Love begins with first finding yourself! Cause only if you’re happy with your self will you be able to embrace the other person just as he/she is. And surprisingly you WILL find true love more easily(naturally). You wont need to rack your brain as to why a certain relationship went wrong.If its meant to be it will be! Without fuss, without hassels, without drama…it WILL happen and you will make your happily ever after….even better than the fairly tales….
You just need to know the difference….
Now its your turn…What do YOU think? Do you have any other definitions of true love that you would like to add to this, or any other differences?

Please share your thoughts in the comments :)

Was busy, the entire last week... Exams, exams and exams....

My elder sis is her @ our place wid her 17 days older cutie daughter... She is my swt hrt....lovely darling.
She sleeps all day long and sometimes smiles..... wat a swt smile she's got.... I love looking at her all the time.. I can spend my entire day just looking @ her... Sometimes I feel that she's in a deep thought and just thinking about why I m here, where am I.. what am I doing... It seems that hundreds of thoughts run @ one time in her mind... I always wonder what these little angels think during these days... what they actually think about us when we look @ them making different faces.... I think this is an unanswerable question....

Bright Sunny Sunday morning....."Reshu is enjoying her Sunday morning with Business Law"

Its a bright sunny morning and Sunday too...
Mom wake me up but I was lazing around as was studyn till late nite...It feels really wierd when you get a week off and you have nothing to say about how u r going to enjoy this weeken....becoz you have to study hard for your examination, that too when someone is running in your mind...OOOOWWW.... same thing happened with me... I was looking at the book but thinkng something else... Mom came and ask me to have my breakfast....No Mom I've to complete this chapter and again I lost in my thoughts... God, wish me luck so that I can wash him off from my mind and can concentrate on my studies...
See, the sandwitches with hot tea are here.... n let me enjoy this morning with "Business law"...

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained or the sofa faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.
I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner."
There would have been more "I love you's." More "I'm sorry's."
But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute, look at it and really see it , live it and never give it back.