“True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.”

We all know relationships come with their share of ups and downs. We have all been through these. Some have come out victorious, while some haven’t been able to wrap their head around what exactly went wrong. Somehow, we all think we need to work hard at making a relationship work. We live with the misconception about what true love is. We have been fed this magical fairly tale like feeling when we were kids with all the fairy tales and the tall, dark and handsome or the tall, fair and beautiful cliches! Its the way story books and the media are…but then, we forget they are just stories. Meant to amuse and entertain.When in reality Love is far more beautiful than any fairly tale or any romantic story. Its a selfless feeling. A feeling towards another…irrespective of reciprocation. If we can only remove the dark glasses of what we Think what love should look like and just feel it for once….all the complications would just melt away.Although there are times when people who are madly in love also part…its not the love thats at fault..its the situation or circumstance. Love is not going anywhere. Its right there in your heart…feel it! Each of us is full of immense love irrespective of our situation or circumstance! We just need to feel it enough and share it enough to let all our relationships blossom in its beauty.
The difference between True Love and Infatuation.
We all need to know this in order to know what part of our loving relationships we need to work on….and Are you truly in love or madly infatuated??
You are In Infatuation when:
You see the other person as perfect
You want to get own needs met; selfish
You spend all your time with the other person
You can Quickly “fall” for the other person
All your Other relationships and friendships deteriorate
You are solely Dependant (emotionally) on the other person
You experience Jealousy frequently
Your relationship lasts for a short period of time
Distance strains and often puts an end to the relationship
Temptation is the second name of infatuation and its so easy to fall for temptation. But the question is, do you want a lasting, satisfying relationship? If so, infatuation isn’t the answer. Look at your relationships through the differences above. A relationship cannot be based on infatuation.Perhaps, True and Real Love begins with first finding yourself! Cause only if you’re happy with your self will you be able to embrace the other person just as he/she is. And surprisingly you WILL find true love more easily(naturally). You wont need to rack your brain as to why a certain relationship went wrong.If its meant to be it will be! Without fuss, without hassels, without drama…it WILL happen and you will make your happily ever after….even better than the fairly tales….
You just need to know the difference….
Now its your turn…What do YOU think? Do you have any other definitions of true love that you would like to add to this, or any other differences?

Please share your thoughts in the comments :)

Was busy, the entire last week... Exams, exams and exams....

My elder sis is her @ our place wid her 17 days older cutie daughter... She is my swt hrt....lovely darling.
She sleeps all day long and sometimes smiles..... wat a swt smile she's got.... I love looking at her all the time.. I can spend my entire day just looking @ her... Sometimes I feel that she's in a deep thought and just thinking about why I m here, where am I.. what am I doing... It seems that hundreds of thoughts run @ one time in her mind... I always wonder what these little angels think during these days... what they actually think about us when we look @ them making different faces.... I think this is an unanswerable question....

Bright Sunny Sunday morning....."Reshu is enjoying her Sunday morning with Business Law"

Its a bright sunny morning and Sunday too...
Mom wake me up but I was lazing around as was studyn till late nite...It feels really wierd when you get a week off and you have nothing to say about how u r going to enjoy this weeken....becoz you have to study hard for your examination, that too when someone is running in your mind...OOOOWWW.... same thing happened with me... I was looking at the book but thinkng something else... Mom came and ask me to have my breakfast....No Mom I've to complete this chapter and again I lost in my thoughts... God, wish me luck so that I can wash him off from my mind and can concentrate on my studies...
See, the sandwitches with hot tea are here.... n let me enjoy this morning with "Business law"...

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained or the sofa faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.
I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner."
There would have been more "I love you's." More "I'm sorry's."
But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute, look at it and really see it , live it and never give it back.

Appreciating Our Past

It is easy to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness. But it is much more healing to look at ourselves and our past in the light of experience, acceptance, and growth.
Our past is a series of lessons that advance us to higher levels of living and loving. The relationships we entered, stayed in, or ended taught us necessary lessons.
Some of us have emerged from the most painful circumstances with strong insights about who we are and what we want. Our mistakes? Necessary. Our frustrations, failures, and sometimes stumbling attempts at growth and progress? Necessary too. Each step of the way, we learned. We went through exactly the experiences we need to, to become who we are today. Each step of the way, we progressed. Is our past a mistake? No. The only mistake we can make is mistaking that for the truth.
Today, God, help me let go of negative thoughts I may be harboring about my past circumstances or relationships. I can accept, with gratitude, all that has brought me to today.

A Lesson in Life

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.
If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks you heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.
Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.
Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.
You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.

Allow Your Own Inner Light to Guide You

There comes a time when you must stand alone.You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams.You must be willing to make sacrifices.You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved.Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged.There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities.Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better.Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by.Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life.Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way.

Think PoSiTiVe...

Anger is a condition in which the tongue thinks faster than the mind.
You can’t change the past but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.
God always gives his best to those who leave the choice with him.
A hug is a great gift… one size fits all. It can be given for any occasion and it’s easy to exchange.
May you always know peace, light, love and laughter!!!